27/07/2014 10:17

A lot of people think not eating means you want to be skinny.  Or get thinner.  Or drop a couple of pounds.  They think it's easy, when you've reached your goal weight, to stop.  To just eat.  

What people don't realise is that 90% of the time, it's not about the ribs or the thigh gap or the hip bones.  It's about the control.  

It's not being able to eat because that will mean you're weak.  

It's not being able to finish a full meal because that will make you look greedy and it will make you fat and nobody liked you when you were fat and now a lot of people compliment you because you're getting skinny you're getting skinny right why are you so unhappy why aren't you jumping for joy why are you sad you're skinny!